relationships

  • The Dependent

    The Dependent

    The Dependent Seeking Safety Through Connection Meet the Dependent This dragon is always looking for someone to lean on. They search for people who feel safe, strong, capable, knowledgeable, or certain. They look for guidance. They seek reassurance. They feel most secure when they know someone else is there to help carry the weight.…

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  • The External Domain: What You Control and What You Don’t

    The External Domain: What You Control and What You Don’t

    One of the greatest sources of frustration, disappointment, and exhaustion is confusing your external domain with your internal one. The external domain includes everything that exists outside of your direct control. Other people’s thoughts. Other people’s choices. Other people’s feelings. The economy. The weather. Past events. Unexpected circumstances. Life itself. Many of us were…

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